Defensiveness is a common relationship issue. It can stem from fear, shame, insecurity, or past trauma. Defensiveness looks like denying responsibility, making excuses, counterattacking, or shutting down. When we take the time to understand the root cause of defensiveness, this can help break the cycle and improve communication.
Read MoreAll emotions act as signals, a “red alert” in response to external stimuli. Guilt arises when we feel we’ve violated our ethics or morals. Can you identify “guilt” as the emotion you’re feeling, and understand what it’s in response to? My clients express remorse over mistakes, hurtful actions, or inaction. Guilt also stems from failing to meet expectations—whether from parents, oneself, or others. Not all guilt is the same and may manifest differently for each person. A key part of letting go is understanding where these feelings come from and acknowledging their impact.
Read MoreTherapy can be a transformative and healing experience, helping individuals navigate life's challenges, cope with mental health issues, and improve their overall well-being. While many people rely on insurance coverage to pay for therapy, there are compelling reasons to consider paying out of pocket for therapy services. In this blog post, we'll explore why you should contemplate this option and how it can benefit your mental health journey.
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